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No One Is Perfect

By The Mouse Potato | November 8, 2006

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A man and his girlfriend were married. It was
a large celebration. All of their friends and
family came to see the lovely ceremony and to
partake of the festivities and celebrations. A
wonderful time was had by all.

The bride was gorgeous in her white wedding
gown and the groom was very dashing in his
black tuxedo. Everyone could tell that the love
they had for each other was true.

A few months later, the wife comes to the
husband with a proposal: “I read in a magazine,
a while ago, about how we can strengthen our
marriage.” she offered.

“Each of us will write a list of the things
that we find a bit annoying with the other
person. Then, we can talk about how we can fix
them together and make our lives happier
together.”

The husband agreed. So each of them went to a
separate room in the house and thought of the
things that annoyed them about the other. They
thought about this question for the rest of the
day and wrote down what they came up with.

The next morning, at the breakfast table,
they decided that they would go over their
lists.

“I’ll start,” offered the wife. She took out
her list. It had many items
on it. Enough to fill 3 pages, in fact. As she
started reading the list
of the little annoyances, she noticed that
tears were starting to appear
in her husbands eyes.

“What’s wrong?” she asked. “Nothing” the
husband replied, “keep reading
your list.”

The wife continued to read until she had read
all three pages to her
husband. She neatly placed her list on the
table and folded her hands
over top of it.

“Now, you read your list and then we’ll talk
about the things on both of
our lists.” She said happily.

Quietly the husband stated, “I don’t have
anything on my list. I think that you are
perfect the way that you are. I don’t want you
to change anything for me. You are lovely and
wonderful and I wouldn’t want to try and change
anything about you.”

The wife, touched by his honesty and the
depth of his love for her and his acceptance of
her, turned her head and wept.

IN LIFE, there are enough times when we are
disappointed, depressed and annoyed. We don’t
really have to go looking for them.

We have a wonderful world that is full of
beauty, light and promise. Why waste time in
this world looking for the bad, disappointing
or annoying things when we can look around us,
and see the wondrous things before us?

I believe that WE ARE HAPPIEST WHEN we see
and praise the good and try our best to forego
the mistakes of our spouse Nobody’s perfect but
we
can find perfection in them to change the way
we see them. Its is necessary to understand the
difficulties and be a helping hand to each
other….THAT BRIGHTENS THE RELATIONSHIP. “

“We forget that forgiveness is greater than
revenge. People make mistakes. We are allowed
to make mistakes. But the actions we take while
in a rage will haunt us forever.
Pause and ponder. Think before you act. Be
patient. Forgive & forget. Love one and all.

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